One of the most frustrating aspects of being conservative is that it’s too easy for the other side to fall back on a “you hate X” where X is any group that you are really, in fact, trying to assist.
An easy example to consider is a school child and her homework.
When I was a teacher I could very easily “give” the student an A on her blank homework. However, I felt that it would do her more good in the short term, the long term and in other character building aspects if she actually worked for and earned that grade.
In today’s liberal dialogue, I would be said to “hate kids”. Or, if the individual liberal were truly on his game he could claim that I “hate girls”.
Silly example? Perhaps. But consider modern day minimum wage laws.